At Baggage Reclaim, I want to teach people how to treat and regard themselves with love, care, trust, and respect. The way that we think about and treat ourselves matters and there is a direct correlation between this and the choices we make, including how we respond to rejection, criticism, conflict and disappointment, as well as our choice in romantic partner.
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The Perfectionism Sessions
The Perfectionism Sessions
£19.00
Do you know what procrastination, disassociating from your achievements and accomplishments, feeling not ‘good enough’, and judging you based on age, appearance, background, past mistakes, etc., have in common? They are all forms of perfectionism.
I believe that consistently feeling fulfilled and happy while also enjoying more loving relationships means unlearning everything that we’ve been taught throughout our life about what it really means to be worthy, lovable and successful. This is why I’ve created The Perfectionism Sessions. Get clear on what it is, how it manifests in your life and what drives it. Learn small yet transformative habits to gradually and lovingly break the cycle.
What you get with your purchase:
- 10 X audio sessions (mp3)
- Examples of perfectionism (5-page expanded list – PDF)
- What’s Driving You? Needs exercise (PDF) + the follow-up guide to the exercise (PDF)
Topics covered include:
- How perfectionism manifests in different forms through self-criticism, your attitude to accomplishments, achievements and approaching projects, tasks and trying things, interpersonal relationships, and communication.
- Why perfectionism is a form of control used to compensate for old hurts and losses while protecting you at the same time.
- The importance of recognising the connection between perfectionism and anxiety, including the messages that your actions, as well as your body, are trying to communicate to you so that you can radically transform your perception of perfectionism and start listening to you.
- How both ‘good’ and ‘bad’ childhoods contribute to perfectionism.
- How to differentiate between your inner critic and your inner voice and understanding your inner critic’s agenda so that you stop treating it like the boss of you or even as if it’s who you are.
- Why cutting back on perfectionism won’t make you ‘complacent’ and will actually lead to you being happier in what you do and who you are.
- How to use recovering from setbacks and self-criticism to understand what you needed — and how to meet that need.
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The Anxiety Sessions
The Anxiety Sessions
£19.00
Do you sometimes feel as if your body is failing you by being anxious when you just want to be okay or ‘normal’?
Do you engage in habits of people-pleasing, perfectionism, overgiving, over-responsibility or overthinking?
Are you confused or in the dark about why you are anxious in certain situations?
Have you talked yourself out of doing something you wanted to because of anxiety?
Do you feel as if you ruined a relationship or opportunity because of your anxious behaviour?
Anxiety is a normal, valid and necessary emotion, but for many, it spells problems and doom. Understanding why anxiety is showing up and the origins of your habit of responding can help you to reclaim yourself from what might feel at times like a paralysing emotion. Over seven sessions, I share healing insights into anxiety and offer tips and tools for breaking the cycle of how you respond to it.
What you get with your purchase:
- 7 X audio sessions (mp3) 1 hour 33 minutes
- Support guide with tips and journaling prompts.
Topics covered include:
- Why we learned to respond to anxiety in the way that we do, including factors that contribute to a habit of under- or over-responding to it
- The specific reasons why we’re anxious and responding with paralysis or the likes of people-pleasing and perfectionism
- What your anxiety is trying to communicate to you, including what it’s telling you about your inner state, what you’re doing or what’s going on around you
- The two specific things that anxiety calls on you to do and ways that you can respond proactively and lovingly
- Tactics for taking care of you and living your life in such a way that it heals old anxiety patterns and reduces anxiety in your life
This class, like any I teach, isn’t medical advice, nor is it a substitute for it. If you have an anxiety disorder (or believe you might), these sessions don’t cover this subject. It doesn’t mean that you won’t find the information useful, particularly around the possible origins of your anxiety or what anxiety is asking you to do, but it does mean you should seek professional support.
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The Intuition Sessions
The Intuition Sessions
£19.00
If you want to feel as if you can trust yourself and be more confident in making decisions and recognising opportunities and issues, you need to be willing and able to listen to your intuition. But what is it, how do you distinguish it from fear (or ego), and how do you start to listen to your intuition when you’ve typically ignored it. This is why I’ve created The Intuition Sessions, a series of ten audio classes and accompanying support guide that teaches you how to recognise, connect with and harness your inner wisdom.
What you get with your purchase:
- 10 X audio sessions (mp3) – total time 80 minutes
- Support guide with tips and tools
Topics covered include:
- Recognising how intuition and fear manifest differently in the body and how to distinguish their messages
- What the inner critic is really all about
- Signs of ego-driven thinking and behaviour that let you know that you’re not being who you really are
- Why you sometimes experience anxiety and intuition at the same time, and what you can learn from it
- Is your intuition wrong sometimes and learning from those instances when you didn’t listen
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Break The Cycle Course
Break The Cycle Course
£295.00
If You’re Serious About Being In A Serious Relationship, Accept No Substitutes
6-Week Self-Study Course To Get That Emotional Baggage Cleared So That You Can Be Available For The Real Deal
Hello! Do you know that a lot of the reasons why we’re drawn to people, why we want to be in a relationship with them and think it would be great, have got nothing to do with 1) compatibility and 2) whether our emotional needs can be met? And here’s the deal:
No matter how great the sex is, no matter how good they look, no matter how much we think we have in common with them, if we’re incompatible and have unmet needs, we’re unfulfilled. The relationship won’t work.
It doesn’t have to be this way.
Imagine if you could take those past experiences and use them as intel to 1) move you towards a more mutually fulfilling relationship and, 2) move you towards becoming more of who you really are.
I invite you to join me on Break The Cycle, which has a wealth of insight, tools, processes and practices to help you break free of relationship patterns that aren’t serving you.
Because the truth is, this whole trying to figure out dating and relationships alone through trial and error, listening to or mimicking loved ones who might be leading you down a dead-end, trying to come up with schemes to catch ‘em and keep ‘em, or people-pleasing in the hopes of being ‘chosen’, is tough.
When we turn 18, no one hands us a manual explaining how to navigate life, so after one too many painful dating and relationship experiences, we mistakenly blame it on us not being “good enough” and fear that there’s no decent folk left to date.
Adulthood is about unlearning all of the unproductive and downright harmful lessons and misunderstandings that we’ve picked up from childhood so that we can become more of who we really are. Unfortunately, many of us don’t realise this, and it can be tempting to give up or to stay stuck subsisting on crumbs (don’t).
That’s why I’ve created Break The Cycle and am giving you the classes and support to help you get to the bottom of your relationship pattern and on the way to healing it, in as little as a month.
And do you know what? Given these Corona times, this is absolutely the time to dig into what’s been going on. Returning to what you know isn’t working for you or being less than who you are doesn’t have to be your future reality.
Become ready for the relationship and life you need, desire and deserve.
If being in a serious relationship and being done with Mr/Miss Unavailables is your top priority over the coming months, I would absolutely love to work with you.
I’m great craic, I seriously know my stuff and will possibly freak you out (in a good way) with how quickly I can pinpoint the personal baggage behind your pattern. I’m also compassionate and dedicated to helping as many people as possible to get out from the shadow of their pasts and into loving, awesome relationships.
Find out more about the course and enrol today on the main course page but if you have any questions, drop me an email at natalie@baggagereclaim.co.uk, and I’ll be in touch ASAP.
Hope to see you in class.
Nat
£295 (approx US$390/Euro€340)
payment plan available when booking from the Break The Cycle course page.